tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32913245.post300138666920132449..comments2023-06-26T04:05:31.457-05:00Comments on The Pen of the Wayfarer: You Cannot Be Too GentleUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32913245.post-620636070042757792012-07-18T07:33:08.743-05:002012-07-18T07:33:08.743-05:00Hi Cathy, yikes, thats a good question. When I fin...Hi Cathy, yikes, thats a good question. When I find myself being<br />harsh it usually means that I have gotten overextended and thus not walking in that gentle place with the Lord. I usually try to pay attention to that and work on getting that part back in order. Human nature being what it is when I speak harshly to someone two things start to happen: they will <br />obviously get defensive and then rather than look to see how they might have provoked me, will look at me and try to focus on my faults! The best thing to do, i think, is to then start to focus on my own walk with the Lord and try to get things in my own life in order so that grace can flow even after the "event". Then they might not be blocked from receiving what they need to from the situation. To use these moments to learn to walk in humility is part of the journey, then be on the lookout to see how you can bless the other person to let them know you are not holding bad feelings toward them.The Pen of The Wayfarerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11779459281437985291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32913245.post-22455957285314841512012-07-16T21:29:31.264-05:002012-07-16T21:29:31.264-05:00Oh how I agree with this....BUT...what do you do i...Oh how I agree with this....BUT...what do you do if you are harsh with someone, and apologize, but still feel bad??? Prayer is the only answer, and ask God to create good out of stupidity! Please tell me what you think? ♥♥♥Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com